Obsessing about being a good person can backfire. There’s a better way.
Editor’s note, September 20, 8 am ET: We’re bringing you some of our best-loved Your Mileage May Vary columns while Sigal Samuel is on parental leave. The one below was originally published last September. This unconventional advice column offers you a unique framework for thinking th

<p>Editor’s note, September 20, 8 am ET: We’re bringing you some of our best-loved Your Mileage May Vary columns while Sigal Samuel is on parental leave. The one below was originally published last September. This unconventional advice column offers you a unique framework for thinking th</p>